I don’t know what came over me last Friday, but I suddenly became sick and tired of Facebook and all other social media. And then I quit it all.

Well, I sort of quit. I get some vital emails through FB’s Messenger app and social media is sort of my job. I can’t exactly quit for good. But I can certainly turn down the volume to a manageable level, so for the whole weekend I just ignored it.
Relief. Let’s just breathe in some fresh air called relief. Human beings filter our communications for a reason–  no one wants to know every little thing we think. Our opinions aren’t meant to be shared 24 hours a day, and I live with two middle schoolers so I know what I’m talking about.

(Is there a group in the history of the world who is more prone to sharing their opinions all the time? I have not yet found a group more opinionated than kids in middle school. Pray for me.)

quitting social media

Silence is sometimes the most valuable thing we could hope to experience, in other words.

I’m not discounting the value of social media, because sometimes it’s awesome. I love it for the following reasons:

  • pregnancy announcements
  • photos and videos of children being adorable for any reason
  • funny stories
  • vacation photos
  • etcetera, etcetera.

But it’s equally awful for these reasons:

  • political blathering and fighting
  • thoughtless comments disguised as “sharing my truth”
  • memes that are so idiotic I begin to seriously question my relationship with the fool who posted it to their feed
  • general pigheadedness

I’m worried the general pigheadedness is so loud we can’t hear the important stuff. If we’re buried in status updates for hours a day, are we leaving room for the important information? Can we hear our families when they speak to us? Can we discern wisdom and truth from the junk anymore?

Jesus said this:

My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me.

(John 10:27, biblegateway.com)

How can I even hear Jesus when I have 32 videos of Donald Trump flapping his lips in front of me? And let’s not discount the twelve memes of cats in tutus, and two posts urging me to click like so baby koalas aren’t killed by terrorists.

Let’s turn down the noise and turn up the valuable, life-bringing, all-powerful information we need to live lives that glorify God. The cats in tutus can continue without us for a few minutes, I believe. And no one needs to hear anything Donald Trump is saying.

But maybe I’ve crossed the line to my own political blatherings here. I apologize. And may the rest of your day be filled with valuable conversations and time with your loved ones.





6 Comments on I quit Facebook cold turkey, and nothing terrible happened

  1. memyselfandkids.com
    February 22, 2016 at 3:35 pm (2 years ago)

    I am not an FB or an social media addict. I pop on here and there. I do think it can be addictive, so good for you for giving it a rest.
    When I turn off for the Sabbath,I appreciate the break.

  2. Jessie Clemence
    February 22, 2016 at 4:10 pm (2 years ago)

    I pop in “here and there” WAY too much. It was great to just stop for a few days!

  3. Vincent Henderson
    February 22, 2016 at 4:37 pm (2 years ago)

    Spring, Summer and Fall will cure most of your Facebook Dilemna. When you’re pleasantly Outside… enjoying yourself…. just turn off the phone…. and ENJOY what you haven’t been able to for the 3 months of winter. Facebook activity drops by 1/2 to 2/3 very soon….. people (me included) – (and perhaps your family)… go about stir crazy by March. 7*70…. was invented even before Facebook.

  4. Jessie Clemence
    February 22, 2016 at 5:09 pm (2 years ago)

    Very true. I’m so thankful for the warm weather this weekend because it preserved a little of my sanity!

  5. David
    February 22, 2016 at 5:34 pm (2 years ago)

    32 videos of Donald Trump?! Think yourself lucky. We are getting inundated with opinions on staying in or leaving the EU. Those on the extreme left and right are particularly vociferous. The hide option is getting used a lot ,as is the mute button during the TV news. It can only get worse.

  6. Jessie Clemence
    February 22, 2016 at 8:59 pm (2 years ago)

    What?! Leaving the EU? I haven’t even heard of this political problem, what with the fools on this side of the pond kicking up such a fuss.

    Just out of curiosity, what are the pros and cons of leaving the EU?